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Maria Montessori's Rules for Adult
Listed below are Dr. Montessori's rules for the treatment of the child by the adult as they
are found in the Around the Child, an Indian Montessori publication.
- Never touch the child unless invited by him in some form
or other
- Never speak ill of the child in his presence or in his absence.
- Concentrate on developing and strengthening what is good
in him.
- Take meticulous and constant care of the environment. Teach
the proper use of things and show the place where they are
kept.
- The adult must always be ready to answer the call of the
child who stands in need of him and always listen and respond
to the child who appeals him.
- The adult is to be active when helping the child establish
a relationship with the environment, and remain outwardly
passive, but inwardly active when this relationship has been
established.
- The adult must respect the child who makes a mistake without
correcting directly. But he must stop any misuses of the environment
and any action which endangers the child or other member of
the community
- The adult must respect the child who takes rest or watches
others working and not disturb him, neither call him nor force
him to other forms of activity.
- The adult must help those who are in search of activity
whithout finding it.
- The adult must, therefore, be untiring in repeating presentations
to the child who refused them earlier, in teaching the child
who has yet learned, in helping the child who needs it, to
overcame imperfections in animating the environment, with
her care, with purposive silence, with mild words, with loving
presence.She must make her presence felt to the child who
searches and hide from the child who has found.
- The adult must always treat the child with the best of good
manners and in general offer him the best she has in herself
and at her disposal.
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